It is funny how life works. You are born and just live your life. You go to high school, do sports, go to Law School, graduate, apply for a job and all of a sudden you are 34 for years-old with a career and life has just been a continuous path of milestones. Then this random guy in Rote confirms (or maybe even emphasizes) what you already knew: “Where is your heart?” “Where does you heart take you instead of your head?”. Since that moment we have been more and more conscious of what happens inside and what we noticed is that, next to feeling more liberated, we are also more exposed to our insecurities. The head was just always there to analyze doubts, failure, pain and even happiness. We were always looking for a solution to make these insecurities disappear. By letting go of the security and safety or our intellect, these insecurities are not protected anymore.
So now they are out in the open, we know we do not want to abandon them. At times it has been pretty confrontational but we leave it with that. Let the insecurities for what they are and believe in the fact that we will just be ok. The intellect will always be there and we embrace that. They are just not overruling anymore. We deal with our insecurities on a different level and don’t try to think too much of them, especially not judge them anymore. And in the end we notice that this allows us to let the heart rule more over the head.