While strolling along the canadian trails in Cortes, we have been confronted with our insecurities. Emotions can be overwhelming. When we are angry our first reaction is to blame something or someone for it. Instead we chose to understand what was going on. Look inwards. And take responsibility for our emotions. We know we have the power to make changes. And these are opportunities to grow. We remember some wise words of Louise Hay.
There is a difference between responsibility and blame. When we talk about responsability, we talk about having power. When we talk about blame, we are making something or someone wrong. Responsibility is a gift as it gives you the power to make changes. But some interpretate it as guilt. Some people tend to go in a guilt trip and see themselves as wrong. Others fall into the victim role and blame others for their negative emotions.
Taking responsibility is empowering and allows you to make changes. If you blame you get stuck as it’s always someone else or something else the cause of discomfort. Then you don’t evolve. Until you don’t take responsibility the same very patterns will repeat.
It’s easy to blame, then it’s someone elses fault, but you gotta stand up on your own feet and take responsibility.