Responsibility VS Blame


While strolling along the canadian trails in Cortes, we have been confronted with our insecurities. Emotions can be overwhelming. When we are angry our first reaction is to blame something or someone for it. Instead we chose to understand what was going on. Look inwards. And take responsibility for our emotions. We know we have the power to make changes. And these are opportunities to grow. We remember some wise words of Louise Hay.

There is a difference between responsibility and blame. When we talk about responsability, we talk about having power. When we talk about blame, we are making something or someone wrong. Responsibility is a gift as it gives you the power to make changes. But some interpretate it as guilt. Some people tend to go in a guilt trip and see themselves as wrong. Others fall into the victim role and blame others for their negative emotions.
Taking responsibility is empowering and allows you to make changes. If you blame you get stuck as it’s always someone else or something else the cause of discomfort. Then you don’t evolve. Until you don’t take responsibility the same very patterns will repeat.

It’s easy to blame, then it’s someone elses fault, but you gotta stand up on your own feet and take responsibility.

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About TALES OF THE WANDERING SOULS

We are not lost, we are just wandering. We love to absorb all that surrounds us, inspire and be inspired by others submerged in adventures and occasional happenings that we love to share with you. Our common denominator is yoga, surf and coconuts. That's our playground and it keeps us grounded. Connected with our true selves, growing and being just the person we love to be. Life is a roller-coaster and the trick is to enjoy every ride. Every bit of negative is a positive too as it brings new experiences and connect us with new people or events. We are learning and having fun. We focus on all the good things we find on our journey and be inspired by inspiration in everything we encounter, these are our Tales of the Wandering Souls. On our blog you will find all the categories that we want to share with you: Saturday Chronicles: A returning post where we will discuss Past, Present and Future with awesome people we meet along our journey. People A deeper and more profound conversation that can be in the form of Q&A or a random dialogue. Just because we are always inspired by people that follow their dreams in life. Be You Displays those things that makes us happy. We love to dress up, enjoy cool clothes that makes us feel awesome within the moment. We are evolving and transforming so just BE YOU today, and enjoy what makes you feel at your best. Inspirational We share all those interesting & worth seeing places we find in our path. Quotes & stories we write, words of others, art, tunes, books and everything that can inspire you. Food Who doesn't want to have a yummy meal? We will share our favourite dishes, our own & others… And of course we will give you the full low-down with an easy DIY. Our Playground From Yoga to Surf and do not forget the Coconuts. We love being active while having fun. From poses we enjoy repeating, to favourite breaks and specific excursuses. Our playground is the place where we connect. Our playground can become yours.

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