Quite some people thought, still think, and say that I just have it all. That everything in life that I achieved was almost literally thrown into my lap without any effort. Little do they know about me, is what I really think when they say that. Nothing but really nothing was handed to me ever. I always have to dedicate myself to reach my goals and make hard decisions that were mostly hard from a “social-life” perspective. The fact is though that I am disciplined and dedicated. Next to that I keep in mind that this little extra effort will always pay off. Being able to combine that with a healthy social life makes my achievements look easy, but it is an external effortless imagination.
So being focused and dedicated on what dreams I had and have at a particular time, makes it easy for me to make decisions. It keeps me focused and makes me not dwell on things that might or should or could. Life just doesn’t work like that. If you really want to achieve something, don’t look at others or judge others, don’t complain and make sure that you are focused and dedicated to reaching that goal. It might seem effortless for the outside world, but you will just know better.