If there is one thing that became clear to me, it is that searching for something is not going to work. Whether it is love, a job, structure, your passion or anything else searching is not the answer. This search will become a frustrating journey and you almost never will find what you are looking for. It is like chasing a butterfly. If you chase it you will never have a close look at it, but if you sit patiently, open for it to pay a visit, it will come and sit right on your shoulder.
So, I am teaching myself to let things the way they are, and definitely not search. I set my intention and follow my heart. Be open to what crosses my path and before I know it, it is right in front of my doorstep.